Gender debate

Feminism began as a reasonable reaction to the freedoms observed in men compared to women in the West. Especially after WW2 when women hired for the war effort decided to stay at work and take home a salary.

But as argued elsewhere in this blog it's all a misunderstanding. Women are kept at home because men want to be sure they do not get pregnant by other men. Unlike women who always know the child they carry is theirs, men are never sure quite who their partner slept with. For this reason women don't really care who their husbands sleep with, beyond fear they will divide their attention with another household. But for men, if they are to invest 18 years of work in a child they want to know for sure its not someone else's. That inequality is what underlies all the apparent "injustice" the feminists observe. And because feminists got this wrong the whole of feminism is wrong.

Feminists also leapt on the Black Emancipation movement. Women seeing themselves as slaves who needed freedom. But actually despite the horrors of US slavery really all this comes from Jewish ideas of Exodus. But actually all these are lies or hugely exaggerated. The Jews were never slaves as argued here, until 1930s Germany anyway. The time in Egypt was not slavery, even the Bible mentions no slavery. So all this is lies in fact and false. But anyway Exodus inspired the Black Emancipation from Capitalism. Which is ironic as Usury and Capitalism was banned in the Bible. But, while the Christians took this to mean in general the Jews took this to apply only to Jews not Gentiles. As a result the only way for Christians to borrow money in the West was from Jews. In fact this is the origin of the Jewish Ghettos. Because Jews were allowed Usury and the Christians not, the Christian Law makers asked the Jews to live outside the city so they could police Usury more accurately. The Jews agreed and so the division began that ultimately ended up in Pogroms and Jewish exclusion from society. Mammon really is not a kind god! So the growth of usury and Capitalism is actually what led to Black Slavery. Which means that Jewish culture both created the chains that enslaved the Blacks and also gave them the Exodus inspiration to break those chains! God moves in mysterious ways indeed.

But once we sweep all this nonsense aside we are left with the gender debate.

Everyone alive was born. This is the most important existential thing for anyone to deal with. And what is probably unwelcome news to those who have got stuck in the gender debate, being alive us the result of sex. There is no way to get away form this. How ever you slice and dice sexual preferences, relationships and culture it all rests on the basis of birth. You need to be born to even argue about this! It is absolutely fundamental.

SO there isn't much to add. Being born is about sex. And it involves two sexes. There is no third sex required for childbirth. Kind of end of.

But there are many types of relationship that have nothing to do with childbirth. There are prostitutes, gay relationships, rape and now trans-sexual relationships. In strict simple, plain talking these are all perversions because they pervert the basic truth of sexual relations that they are to do with birth.

However we don't need be so restrictive -- except in the case of non-consensual relations which automatically count as crime. Altho I remember a German case where a man consensually agreed to be eaten by another. His penis was eaten first suggesting a sexual motive to this rather than just being hungry! Sex can take almost any form and we agree that many forms are perversions. But as liberalism spreads we accept more and more.

Well not getting into the complexities of sexual preferences but how ever you argue this the root basis of procreation is a given from which everything else comes.

Gender is similar. In functioning sexual relationships that give rise to children there are obvious roles that people fall in to. Females for example produce milk, and gestate the child. Men do not do either. There is no real argument here. Fitting these facts into gender roles is definitely the simplest way. Indeed it would be fascism to force men and women to abandon these time honoured and logical facts. But it is true there is no reason to be heavy handed and force people into gender roles. But equally no reason to be heavy handed and force people out of them either.

So there isn't much to this debate really once you clear away the nonsense.

But now we see America yet again. The problem here is US Ego, Rights and Freedom at play. In the US you define your freedom by being an idiot and rejecting everything you are told. You appoint yourself as an expert and you decide to rewrite the rules. The problem with this is you are probably wrong. But being a loud mouthed American you won't listen and you will be the last to realise you are wrong. America and Americans have  along history of being wrong about everything.

Something the so called Cis community needs to do is claim back the sex and gender debate from the self appointed idiots who seem to think they know what they are talking about. Everything in Feminism needs review because it is obvious nonsense. And everything that derives from Feminism is on even more shaky territory. But really the main problem is if its American: then it's wrong.

Mentioned before a main problem is this false belief in "Patriarchy." There is no such thing, its an invention of Feminism. What Feminism does is invent Patriarchy and then use that to justify Feminism. But Patriarchy is part if Feminism so by SRH you can't use Patriarchy to justify Feminism. Its like a salesman or advert who creates a need and then surprisingly has the solution.

Take a current UK advert which introduces the idea of "nose blind." This is the feature of the smell you get when cooking that during cooking you lose the ability to smell what you are cooking. Well some marketing exec realised they could use this to sell unnecessary air fresheners. No one really uses them, but you can make people paranoid and feel they do need them. Like all bullshit you can turn to the salesman and say well if you can get nose-blind then so can your guests so you don't need it. All swords are doubled edged. All salesmen defeat themselves. Feminism has all the tools of its own ruin/ It is nonsense.

What remains is the "way things are" and like all good scientists and Buddhists you must start with the value of the way things are upon which to base your thoughts and actions. You can't dismiss the way things are like Feminists do. You can't hate the way things are because they are the world that you live in and from which everything you say and do comes.

So caveat to myself. America is the way the world currently is. But its important to understand America for what it is, not what it says it us! And they are almost completely opposite. America comes with its own ultra-massive sales department (which includes the whole of the NEWS and Hollywood) and I think most people don't realise this.