Seduction? & the myth of Sex

What a myth this is! I have realised that sexual desire is ubiquitous amongst humans. Socially it is the male who is required to make the advances, but while the female may feign non-interest really her desires are the same. Perseverance by any male will result in copulation simply because the female require sex as readily as food. The only reason a female will reject sex is if she is already satisfied, in exactly the same way that we will not eat at a restaurant. So the only task for a male is to ensure that he offers better sex than the next male. This is actually incredibly simple and obvious but for some reason the culture, at least the Anglo-American culture seems to reject this simple truth.

The female world is equally confused by this as the male world, primarily because the female is expected to reject the advances of the male even while she would like what is offered. This ironic nature of female sexuality is necessary i would imagine otherwise the male cannot perform his sexual role as the initiator and conquerer. Certainly I have taken women at their first word and it results in disbelief and confusion!

What I have been suprised by however is that there is no woman I have met who is after anything but sex. I suppose the problem revolves around the fact that women need to wait upon men for their sexual fulfillment because they take the passive role, while the man is at liberty to initiate sex whenever he so requires. This enables the man to take charge of his sexual behaviour and so the male can chose to be celibate. This seems much rarer for women. especially also because women primarily view their role as beautiful, desirable and the mothers of children.

So in reality the socialisation of sexuality has created a rather complex skin to what, underneath, is incredibly simple and just basic appetite which all humans share. The word "love" should banned because it is a misleading lie. It is simply the ego speaking about the object of its desire "MY love", "MY partner" etc etc

And upon seeing all this for the simple and quite uninspiring world that it is it makes it very much simpler to leave this intrique behind. There is no holy-of-holies :-) to sexuality, no hidden realms and undiscovered bliss that is worth fighting so hard for. Sexual satisfaction, intense orgasm, extreme sexual horniness and desire is more likely to open doors that it can't close rather than lead to profound states of mind and satisfaction. Any more than drug use can solve our lifes questions and problems. It would be interesting if anyone who knows otherwise would respond to this, but in my limited experience and the people I have spoken to this does seem to be the truth.