Well if i'm brutally honest there is no suprise that i have become confused!
If I ask my friends why they are married they say to a piece that they want companionship. Yet we had plenty of companionship down the pub, holidaying, looking 4 girls etc.
The completely obvious thing they get from a wife is sex. And now i realise that for all the complications this is the basic drive. The higher world is a million miles away in a completely different place. This is not love it is sex. If anyone ever asks why we want a girl, a lover, a wife it is for sex. Nothing wrong in that but its the truth and for some reason we hide behind other explanations. And if we want to know why we marry one girl and not another it is because they give us better sex and make us feel better, and the same works in reverse. It is not about love at all and it is a terrible mistake to think it is.
If someone does not make us feel sexually satisfied then we wont want a relationship with them - quite regardless of love or anything else and that has been my mistake to treat women as spiritual equals when obviously the reason for choosing them was sex.
There is more to say about the dynamics of sex here but no more about love. Again the cross roads are as perpendicular as ever ... do we seek sex or love however are the two clear sign posts... clearer today than ever before.
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